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Words SHAPE our future…Reverse your Speaking and Thinking and receive favorable results…

16 Jan

Written By: ShelliMonét Newbolt

Each day we determine what state of mind we‘re going to be in when we awake.  We decide to feel either happy or sad; even if our circumstances communicate otherwise.  The frame of mind we set structures our entire day.  By speaking positive we set the ball in motion to decide the course of our day.  When we feel the opposite those negative emotions emerge and causes us to only attract unfavorable events to occur, which confirms our mind-set.

So, I wondered why a person consciously chooses to speak devaluing and defeating words to his/her self?

Like the following:

1.     I’m not smart enough,

2.    I’m stupid,

3.    I’ll never make it,

4.    Why do bad things always happen to me,

5.    My life sucks,

6.    I don’t have enough money or

7.    I’m poor

Why would a person knowingly want to curse their life with perceiving the worst about themselves?  Although, their situation may be less than desirable at the time,  a person is not bad based upon those external difficulties they are facing.  Instead of projecting pessimistic words over your life which will bare only more hardship because you already spoke lack and doubt over your life, so how can abundance and good take root and alter or counteract those grime words you effortless cast out into the universe?

And the ironic point is when they receive all of those negative manifestations back, as an alternative  to reshape their life with healthier, optimist philosophies, immediate they add fuel to the fire by, confirming more unfruitful and pessimistic terms.

I believe Anthony Robbins put it best, when he said, “Life will pay whatever you ask it for.”

After much pondering, prayer and reading a multitude of books, I realized, we as a

world have been greatly deceived! The reason being, most have been conditioned to think, speak and believe negatives.  At once, I remembered, when I was twelve years old, I read Norman Vincent Peale, “The power of positive thinking.”

Where he pointed out that 90% of the world is negative in their view and only a mere 10% are positive.  For some reason, I never forgot those indeliable impressions.  I guess because it was quite alarming for me to comprehend the enormous uneven divide.

Despite the statistic, I want to encourage you along with provide you with beneficial words to help you take full command over your thinking and speaking to ensure you receive favorable results in your life.

1. Confidence:

First and foremost, a person will only belittle his/her selves when he/she doesn’t feel valuable, worthy, important or accomplishment.  Think about it, when you feel confident do you echo untruths and destructive words about yourself?  Of course, you don’t, that’s what so great about feeling empowered!  But when you experiencing multiple challenges all at once, your faith is tested causing you to sometimes react.  And many times due to stress we all tend to say inaccurate and unproductive words in the heated moment of frustration.  What then happens, the seeds he/she plant rapidly take root, an evidently manifest the unwanted negative fruit.

Now, I want you to be conscious of the words which you select.  So the next time a challenge arises, instantly take a few deep breathe and wait 30 seconds before reacting.  This gives you an opportunity to eliminate some tension and get prospective, before you blurt out sabotaging words toward your life and future. This is a proven EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) exercise that indeed works.  Quickly, recall a time when you felt powerful and then reverse the questions you normally ask yourself.  For Instance: substitute those questions with healthy nurturing ones given below:

1.    “Why are good things always happening to me?”

2.    “Why do I have more than enough money?”

3.    “Why AM I abundant in all I do?”

4.    “Why AM I smart enough to achieve my dreams and goals?”

5.    “Why do I always attract good people and good events into my life?”

6.    “Why I’ll make it, do it and attain it?”

7.    “Why God puts so much good in me?”

8.    “Why the gifts God blessed me with are improving others and the world?”

9.    “Why is my life so WONDERFUL in all aspects?”

10. “Why I have abundance in every area of my life!  There is NOTHING lacking?”

11. “Why I AM so blessed and AM grateful to God for all my abundance?”

12. “Why all my bills and obligations are paid in full (Debt FREE)?”

13. “Why I AM a giver?”

14. “Why my money is generating, multiplying, overflowing continuously increasing and appreciating in every form every day?”

15. “Why I REFUSE to live in a state of LACK any longer?  Because God DEMANDS for me to reside in PROSPERITY!”

16. “Why God’s word say’s ‘The power of life and death is in the tongue, Proverbs 18:21?”

FEAR:

The second reason one speaks and thinks scarcity into his/her life, he/she lacks focus and purpose.  You see, when a person is ignorance of their truth place in the world he/she doesn’t seem to make onward progress.  This  limits the individual from taking risks and aspiring to certainly live in the fullness which God intended for that person.  As a result, his/her confidence is deficient causing them to be apprehensive about daring to participate in new encounters or experiences.  It’s like being mentally imprisoned, so they don’t care if they are negative and unhappy individuals who constantly complains and don’t make progress (emotionally, financially, mentally, physically and spiritually).

“The tongue that brings healing is a tree of life, but a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit.”  Proverbs 15:4

To conquer anxiety you must build your self-esteem and understand who you are (value).  After recognizing self-worth,  take a week or so to search your heart and mind to uncover your gifts, talents and genius within.  Ask yourself…

1.”What I’M I exceptional at doing?”

2.”What do I like doing?”

3.”What would I do even if I didn’t get paid for doing it?”

Then with ongoing prayer and meditation your gifts will be clearly revealed to you.  Remember, “If you seek you shall find.”  Psalms 27:4

After you’re sure of your talents you must discover what your idea purpose is in life.  And this can be a journey in it self.  Be sure to relax and exercise patience.  Remind yourself finding out your mission in life is extremely serious, so don’t rush this process.  The challenges all arise once you’re aware of your divine calling…

Therefore words, thoughts and past behaviors all shape our future results.  In order to get different resolutions we must alter our personal philosophies.  How do we do that, start to be accountable for each word and thought that come into our mind.  We decide if we want to entertain that particular thought or voice certain words.  It’s a learned discipline which takes time to structure and control.  I used EFT tools along with the recommendations from one of my beloved books, “The one minute millionaire” By: Hansen and Allen, it instructed me to place a rubber band on your left wrist for 30 days and every time I either thought or spoke a negative word I snap the rubber band.  This is a simple but a great way to control what you think and get great results.

So, when you utter pessimistic comment about yourself out of fear and stress be mindful it your low self confidences causing you to disrespect yourself and drawing negatives toward your present and future.  Be valuing yourself more, counteracting opposing words and thoughts is the only way you’ll achieve your level of success and peace in life, so decide to pick constructive words and thoughts instead of destructive one, because your destiny depends upon it.

“Let your past instruct you, not burden you.” Jim Rohn (1930-2009)

Stay tune for next weeks blog with more characteristics detailing the powerful effects of how words shape your destiny.

Start 2011 Off Without Nicotine, Alcohol Consumption or Over-eating…

28 Dec

Written by:  S.M. Newbolt-Williams

In closing 2010,  I wanted to bless others with a gift which would ensure they start 2011 off in a constructive as well as healthy manner.  Therefore, if you or anyone you know are battling with quitting smoking, giving up alcohol, over-eating or any other habit which is mentally imprisioning you, then I want you to email me at shellimonet@gmail.com.   For $1.00 U.S.  I will send you a copy of my booklet on how to give up those habits.  In doing Cancer Research, Dr. Van Elsacker and I studied many ways the body processes foods, herbs and minerals to counteract various substance abuse and I found it helpful to create a guide for myself to give up nicotine and it was about to help a few of my very dear friends as well.

Again, thank you for reading my blog and I look forward to hearing from you.  I also wish you and your family the very best 2011.

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Thank you fellow Prospects…

23 Sep

Written by: ShelliMonét Newbolt

This is a special blog to extend a heartfelt thanks to the 489 people who sent me emails regarding securing their copy of “How you too can become a Money Sponge”.    Those messages really uplifted and inspired me to continue on with my goal of helping others to tap into their greatness.  There have been many individuals who have inquired about the methods I’m using to create success so I thought I would take some time out to construct a brief blog.

For those who have not yet got their copy of “How you too can become a Money Sponge” just go to www.kinshiconsulting.com .  As for the other invaluable resource which are assisting me in positively changing lives.  I highly recommend Mike Dillard’s Magnetic Sponsoring, http://MoneySponge.magneticsponsoringonline.com .  Dillard’s direct approach is useful in all aspects of life it doesn’t only apply to building a milion dollar Online network it goes quite deeper than that.  Also, I have re-read over 10 times  „The Power of the praying woman“  written by:  Stormie Omartian, which I can’t seem to stop suggesting that all women read because its a great example of how God uses women to achieve amazing quest.  In additional to the following:

„Prayers that avail much“            By: Germaine Copeland

„The Spirit To Serve“                      By:  JW Marriott Jnr

„Stanley The Millionaire Mind“  By: Thomas J Stanley

The Millionaire Next Door“       By Thomas J. Stanley, Ph. D. and William D. Danko, Ph. D.

Jim Rohn’s  magazíne www.successmagazine.com/expert?authorId=19

I used many tools to help me with reaching my goals and one of the most important is daily prayer with my international prayer group.  Prayer and exercise keeps me centered on what’s at hand and it pushes to assidiously work to assist those who are driven to acheive their dreams and to cheerfully provide for my family.

Therefore, I want much success for all who take a leap of faith to turn their dreams into reality.

Again, thank you for reading my blogs and I desire to keep on providing your enlightening details which are

helpful to your unlimited success.

Confidence…Do you have what it takes to achieve wealth?

23 Sep

Written by:  ShelliMonét Newbolt

As I have observed many successful people, one common characteristic which they share is possessing a high level of self confidence.  This quailty of esteeming themselves in a way which others can admire as well as follow is essential in all areas of life.  Some believe its just relevant when it comes to business and marketing, but I’ve found that it helps in every aspect of life.

Have you noticed that confident individuals tend to be more optimistic toward life?  They problem solve differently and seem to look at the glass as half full instead of the reverse.  Well I’m sure you’re probably wondering what this all has to do with creating wealth.  You see, making money to merely get by is one thing, but to truly step out on blind faith and dare to cultivate a six figure income is another.  Self assured people are not easily discouraged and usually accomplish what they set out to pursue.  Most perceive rejection as an opportunity to continue to refine themselves, unlike pessimistic individuals who experience a few let downs and immediately retreat for the bottle or curse the world including God and continue to question every aspect of their lives.  As we are aware, circumstances occurs in all of our lives and we usually bounce back from most obstacles which some refer to as problems.  However, looking at a situation in a negative view only delays our blessings and clouds a sensible resolution.

In my study of confident individuals, I watched a couple films which I really like and one in particular (“Little Miss Sunshine”) absolutely depicts a character who is pretending to be assured and his job is to coach others into creating wealth, but his low self worth prevents him from doing so.  However, he believes contrary and continues on in a state of  frustration and failure.  His illusion of being an authority figure who others want to follow is almost laughable.  His unconventional family outright disobeys his rules and views him and his wealth building program as annoying instead of encouraging.

After repeatedly watching that funny but depressing film, I realized there are a great deal of individuals walking around hoping to become wealthy, but they honesty don’t know who they are and lack much needed confidence.

Now, let me ask you a question…

Would you follow a person who doesn’t possess self worth?

One who surely does not believe in what he/she is teaching, selling or developing? Of course not.  How is he/she going to coach you into becoming a powerhouse if they’re cottage? Its obvious to recognize an individual that has little or no esteem; you can hear it in the pitch of their voice, see it in their attire, appearance and notice it in their uncertain body language.

I know there are countless Online money making programs on the Internet promising to make you rich with a click of a button, but the reality of it all…no one can and do succeed in becoming a six figure earner who lacks assurance, it just doesn’t happen.  Why? Because we attract positives toward us by the words we say and the thoughts we dwell upon and the same can be said regarding the opposite.  Ask yourself can a pessimistic person fully execute and follow through with drawing optimistic results toward him/her?  Think about those people who are constant complainers and ongoing naggers…how would they create a desirable stream of wealth?  The answer is they wouldn’t.  Successful individuals must be teachable and willing to duplicate the efforts of others who they aspire to be like.  This action in its self requires much discipline and a great deal of time to achieve the same results.  Don’t you see  building a profitable fortune takes a lot of wisdom, time and energy.  If it didn’t everyone who desires to be wealthy would achieve their dream.  Also keep in mind esteemed individual dare to take great risk in order to gain prosperity. The reason being, most don’t entertain the thought of falling short or failing.  Instead, they concentrate on the end result of achievement.  And this can only be accomplished by surrounding yourself with optimistic goal oriented people who don’t operate by a desperate spirit which only leads to fear and failing.  You know the ones who walk in defeat and when someone has a good idea immediately they utter some sabotaging words in attempt to hinder constructive progress of someone else.

Let me ask you another question…

What does prosperous iconic people like Bill Gates, Martin Luther King, John Kennedy, Michael Jackson, Madonna, Oprah, President Obama and Tony Robbins (just to name a few) have that you don’t?  The answer is absolutely NOTHING!  You see, all of the above are confident individuals who have made the world embrace their talents and skills.  They are not any different than you and me.  People listen to them, purchase their goods and services because they project expertise and assurance, so we perceive them to be knowledgeable and trustworthy.  Its all in the way of packaging and presentation how others see you.  Therefore, when you sell/market an item or service Online your confidence must shine through to set you apart from the others (take your time to select your words to make sure they are positive ones. For example: don‘t use IF instead use ARE. When you begin with „ARE YOU“ its a call to action word and IF create doubt).  Your focus should be on providing quality products or services, not on selling rubbish in order to make a fast buck.  Remember your prospects are intelligent and they can see through the garbage and as a result you lose a potential customer or client.  Indeed, if your objective is to expand your Online presence to build a long-term customer base than quality is everything!

Now you should decide do you have what it takes to command ultimate wealth in your life?  If the answer is absolutely…then take the ball and run with it.  And start by observing confident people and reading as many books as you can on assurance and success. Start with adjusting your posture and walking with your shoulders errect, speaking uplifting words which carry power, giving the person you’re talking to direkt eye contact, educating yourself on your product which you are selling, maintaining a eye-catching appearance and knowing your expertise is valuable to the world so other not only want to purchase your product but most of all they need it!

I hope you have enjoyed reading my blog on confidence and I’m looking forward to receiving your feedback.

And I wish for you all great success in all your efforts!

Have we lost our Online Marketing Etiquette just to make a Buck?

13 Aug

Written by: ShelliMonét Newbolt

The term network is defined as a group effort. What does it mean to you? Well, I have found many people join MLM businesses and are immediately left on their own to sink or swim. I wonder have we lost our etiquette? In our vast pursuit for wealth are we becoming too greedy? And have we been taken in by the enormous catchy advertisements and sales pitches promising instant cash if we purchase a particular e-book or join a program.

Lately, I questioned so many desperate marketing tactics which apparently appeals to our global economics decline. Some of those methods are intended to lure in people who are unfortunately in an uncompromising financial predicament, to take action at once and buy a system or an e-book; which they most likely can’t afford, but some do sacrifice a pressing obligation, because of an assurance of wealth and peace of mind are very enticing. Certainly, some of those systems do deliver, however in reality, most don’t. This leaves many to either doubt or question altogether the legitimacy of Online marketing.

Perhaps, we’re sacrificing our integrity, In order to make a fast buck? I’ve noticed in my quest to continue expanding my Online business, some are willing to sale information for an inflated cost, which can be complimentary shared. Why? It all comes down to rapacity!

So, after reading countless, wealth building books along with attending a great deal of conferences, I came to this conclusion… my innate conviction of helping others is still very much the key to cultivating prosperity. Not to assist others to acquire financial rewards, but to see a need and to sincerely meet it. By doing so, your self-worth elevates and your draw positives toward you, as a result of operating out of generosity. Remember, when marketing your goods and services, you’re building long lasting relationships with your prospects which will quickly become your clients.

So, your goal should not be a detached sale. If you do so, you’ll never connect with them again. You should desire to establish a lengthy relationship and then they’re more inclined to become life long clients. Beside, the World Wide Web is a huge selling vehicle which offers all of us a significant piece of the pie. Therefore, why are their excessive as well as seductive ads with half truths plastered all over the Internet? I’m sure you’re familiar with those ads which guarantees you’ll earn money while laying on your couch and not lifting a finger. Yes, I know it sounds utterly ridiculous! However, those ads are indeed receiving a large volume of traffic each day. To think, who would believe becoming financially strong could occur by not working smart to achieve it? What a tremendous insult, to our intelligence, by placing such false claims. And what ever happened to selling a legitimate product for an honest profit? So, I asked myself, have we lost our respect for our fellow man?